Am I Ready to be a Parent?

questions expectant mother's ask About Single Parenting

How will I support myself and my child?

This usually one of the first concerns of any parent. If you are working you maybe able to continue with your current job. Unless you have a friend or relative willing to help with childcare, you will need to find reliable childcare. Some states offer assistance with childcare costs, healthcare, financial and grocery assistance, particularly if your income is within a certain range. It is also mandatory that the birthfather of the baby financially contribute to the well being of his child. If you are going to school, you may be able to find a part-time job or may qualifty for public assistance.

Where will I live?

If you are living with family, you may be able to continue living with them. If you already have an apartment, explore how you will meet your expenses once you have your baby. Other housing options may include living with a friend or relative, living in a group home for single mothers, or subsidized housing.

How will being a parent affect my social life?

Having a child will change your social life. Your friends may change. Your activities will change. You will not have nearly the same amount of time for yourself tha you did before your baby was born. If available in your area, you may be able to get involved in a Mother's of Preschoolers group (M.O.P.S. and M.O.P.S. for TEENS) or a young mothers group at your local YMCA.

What resources are available to me?

We can help you at CPCS, or a local crisis pregnancy center near you, with our material assistance earning programs. There are also many churches and community agencies that offer help, like WIC, or you may even qualify for public assistance for medical or financial needs. Call 800-337-9306 or a location near you.